A hot wallet's key lives on a device that talks to the internet — a browser extension, a phone app. A cold wallet's key lives on a device that does not. The difference is not quality. It is how many kinds of attack can reach the key.
Speed IS money — for the drainer. One malicious signature in a hot wallet and the whole balance walks. People who trade size keep it cold and trade from a small hot wallet they can afford to lose.
The split that survives mistakes
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A cold wallet for anything you would mind losing.
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A hot wallet holding only what you actively trade.
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A throwaway wallet for mints, airdrops and experiments.
Where this goes next
Cold storage has a physical form, and the attack it defends against has a shape worth knowing before you buy one.